Some people like to bend the rules of recipes.  This is good.  Bending  the rules is creative and you don’t hurt anyone.  That is when you are baking, decorating, etc.  I like to stick up for the underdog.  At times, I have certainly, as a petite blonde woman  felt like one and that is why I like the underdog.  At times, new businesses are underdog and need all the help they can get.  At times, I made myself unpopular by sticking up for a child who wasn’t related to the school secretary because he was being a bully.  I just wish people would do what is right but I can’t change it , so I must be the better person and move on.  We follow the rules except when baking and then do tell, we be creative but we don’t hurt anyone.